August 7, 2007 at 12:08 pm (Parts conflict, family, relationships, the Secret)
how is it, when I mention I am a hypnotherapist, people get paranoid? is everyone really that poor of self esteem that they think that I could be bothered delving into their lives without their permission or request?
I am not usually interested in the deep psyke of others unless I have to deal with them in a meaninful way, the FEAR that I have seen my profession evoke in people is truely amazing, I have been accused of analysing people when I ask a simple question to a friend just because I want to know, not as an analytical tool.
And yes, I realise that this is because they are reacting to a gestalt and it is not what I said, it is still confronting when a simple comment can lead to hysterics and tears.
clearly the counselling they are already receiving (for the last 5 years) is not working or is moving way too slow, people heal much more quickly than you realise, the power of controlling your mind and feeding the good focus in convincing your subconscious that it is indeed ok and a comment can be made without it relating directly to you and that you make youself feel bad because of that comment.
ok, off my chest now
good thing that no one reads this blog, I get to vent and therefore have a discussion with all the different parts of my psyke.
be well and chill out every one
Hugs
Mel
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May 17, 2007 at 2:53 pm (command, family, relationships, the Secret)
The Amazing thing about the secret is that is isn’t people have been talking about it for centuries
Hold a memory of a person for long enough and they will contact you (yes, even if it is a dream then it is contact)
we ask for things all the time without actually realising that we do
saying “its awful” over and over again really compounds the fact that what is in that world is and will remain, believing and looking forward for things to change and working on a future.. that gives both you and the universe something to aim for.
Because as soon as you mention that you want “that”, then suddenly you may begin to see many other people whom already have “that” and when you associate or relate to those people you will find out how to get “that”, it is a snowball effect that just keeps going.
Be grateful for what you have… I have a beautiful husband and gorgeous children, and the more I get to know them the luckier I feel… even in the challenging times – and there are many in life, I am lucky because there is always hope and everything eventually passes both good and bad… when you focus on the good bits then the bad falls away, shrivels and drops off like it is supposed to…. gain learning from every challenge… look at it and say thankyou for being here, what do I need to learn?
Learn to say “thankyou for giving me this” say it to yourself, others and the universe
and watch with child like wonder as your life changes for the better little by little and you notice it.
law of compounding says that a little movement now can make a huge difference in the future, just one little baby step of self appreciation and love and off you go on the best Alice in wonderland ride ever!!
Be well and happy
Mel
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