I know of a couple who have split up for two years now and the guy has been dragging his feet with settlement, so much so that he is now in contempt of court.. it means more to him to piss off his ex than to just get it over with.
Sadly, they have a child and the many issues that go along with that.
(back story)
for the last 5 years, he has been predicting his own death, this is one of the reasons that his wife left him because he took her on his roller coaster of emotions every day and she could not cope any more and left him. He is morbidly obese and though in the last 2 years shed 75kg+ he is still a big boy.
Last week, I have been told that he was due in court in three weeks time and he will not do anything about it, the guy is a friend so all I can do is be there if he needs to chat.
On Monday I find out that he is now in hospital in ICU on a respirator with secondary pneumonia and his own immune system is attacking his lungs , he had been coughing up blood…. talk about a parts conflict.
For as long as I have known them, he has been generally unhappy, and from what his ex wife says, he was always saying he was going to die around his birthday, this has been going on for years because she would call me crying from time to time and say she could not help him want to live, he did not want to get off the couch and look at alternatives, he just kept saying that he would die and it would be soon…. he turns 35 in may
Simply put, be careful what you say because the subconscious mind is always aware and gives you exactly what you want, given that once she had left him he then went out and shed so much weight, if he turned his thinking to I want to live.. then perhaps this would have been different, he still can pull through, he just needs to want it enough, however in his language now saying “I don’t want to die” Still carries the command ‘to die’, the subconscious can (and does depending on the depth of importance) ignore the ‘don’t’.
Think for a positive outcome and say it 10 times in the morning and 10 times at night
Emile coue coined the phrase
“every day and in every way I am becoming better and better and better”
I give this to my clients to say and because it is open ended for the better, then the subconscious takes this on easily and naturally and changes things in just the right time for you.
Be well
Mel
