Well, there has been drama, tears and someone left her husband… again none of it me…
My little sister lobbed up on our doorstep with her 3 kids… ok, she has left her husband… ok, he was substandard anyway… and by the way… here is her new boyfriend… WOW!!
I have to tell you, how amazing are people, the capacity to change is enormous and yet we spend our time holding onto our limitations, I am not talking physical, although they are a product of the psyche, not what you are born with but what you do with it, I am talking about the ability to STOP SMOKING ONCE YOU DECIDE IT IS TIME. or to clean the house in 15 minutes because you just got that phone call from the in laws or a particulariy fastidious Aunt just wants to pop in.
It is always amazing how under the right constraints we can do anything and achieve goals rapidly and with seemingly little effort on our part, like looking back after you have finished this years tax and saying to youself… well, that was easier than I thought!!
Did Leomardo di vinci have self doubt? he probably did, but it cetainly was not apparent in his work, did Mozart hear horrible music in his head? and if he did, did he choose to re write it as he went along?
It is apparent that our internal beliefs effect our lives and our appearances, the way we inteact with the world and the way in which we see the world from our own point of view,
A really good friend of mine looked at a note that I was stressing about and saw that there was no malice in it, only my (ridiculously) jaded thoughts gave it a different twist it is something that we all do every day… look through our own reality bubble, time for me to join others so that I can help them change the shape of their bubble and redecorate it a little.
hugs
Mel
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